1.) You must sit heavy using your full weight, like you’re sitting on a
chair. No kneeling or squatting. Don’t lean forward either, as that just
takes some of your weight off his face. Sit upright. A mat on the floor
is bad because you can’t really sit on him with your full weight unless you
stick your legs out in front of you. The edge of a bed is okay as long as
the bed is low enough that you can actually sit with your feet flat on the
floor. A narrow padded exercise bench is best. So-called facesitting
chairs aren’t really so good because some of your weight is supported by
the chair seat and not entirely on his face, or his head is on the chair
seat and you’re sitting too high for you to be comfortable.
2.) Your bottom must be bare in at least 50% of the video. You may
start out fully dressed, in fact it’s good when you do, because that sets
the scene.
3.) He must be tied down by his wrists so that he can’t grope you or
push you off him. He must also be tied at the ankles so that he can’t kick
at you. And he must also be tied down firmly to the bedframe or bench so
that he can’t roll or slide out from under you and take a breath. You’re
doing this for YOUR pleasure, not his.
4.) You must actually make him hold his breath under your ass for at
least 30 seconds at a time (preferably longer). If he can roll his head
and take a breath, you’re not sitting heavy and/or you don’t have him tied
up tight enough.
5.) Your bottom should completely cover his nose and mouth. Don’t
bounce and squirm and gyrate and mash your ass into his face. That just
takes your weight off his face and lets him breathe. Just sit. You can
listen to music and bob your head and body on him. That’s nice.
6.) Have a reason to be sitting on his face. Eat an apple. Smoke a
cigarette. Chat on the phone with your BFF. He’s just a piece of
furniture to you.
7.) Don’t sit with your legs too wide apart. I know what they do that
in facesitting videos, but it just screams STAGED! and FAKE! Instead,
show brief periodic glimpses of your crotch as you adjust yourself while
being careful not to let him catch a breath. That’s more tantalizing and
more realistic.
8.) Also remember safety! It varies, but a person will likely pass out
after about 3 minutes of continuous asphyxiation. Merely passing out won’t
cause permanent damage, he’ll regain consciousness on his own when allowed
to breathe again. Brain damage (much like a stroke) will begin to occur
after about 5 minutes of continuous asphyxiation. Death will occur after
about 10 minutes. These are rough estimates which will vary by person, so
be careful when you make that perfect facesitting video…